Not Your Usual Resolution

T’is the season for New Year’s Resolutions. I personally am not the biggest fan of the ole New Year resolution. Eat less, exercise more, be nice to puppies and small infants…. these are just some of the things that we promise ourselves yearly that we will - without a doubt - carry through with.

“Ach pbbttt!” my Irish-mother-in-law would say. And you can’t argue with the simplicity of that logic. How many of these things do we actually stick with once the grind of post-holiday life kicks in? Why can’t we just be better, thinner, happier version of ourselves forever, and ever, and ever without the muck and the fuss?

As I mentioned in my previous blog, I spent a few days recently travelling with Ian Hill, our ACE ambassador, on the ACE Ignite tour. Not only is this tour a celebration of our new ACE communities, it is also an opportunity to ignite the communities into further action.

The Ignite Tour is as what one community leader in Trochu said: "A pat on the back and a kick in the butt at the same time."

Part of this call to action was a very inspirational talk by Ian Hill. Ian, an award-winning philanthropist and businessman, often centered his speech on the power of the individual. “Imagine,” he said, “what your life would be like and the life of your family, if you woke up tomorrow and decided to be 10% better. What if you aimed to be a better mother, a better husband, a better neighbour?”

“Now imagine,” he continued, “if everyone in your community woke up that day and decided the exact same thing. How much better would the quality of everyone’s life be then?”

I heard variations of his speech as we travelled together over those few days. By day three and possibly ten speeches later, I finally stopped and thought to myself: “hey – maybe its time that I figured out how I could be a better person and a better citizen.”

Some are clearly slower on the uptake than others.

So here is not one … but ten resolutions that I plan on making in 2010 to not only better myself but to better the quality of life of the people around me. 2010 is going to be fierce!

Janet Naclia's 2010 New Year's Resolutions

1) I will stop and make a meaningful connection with at least one person every week in my neighbourhood. And I don’t mean some fluffy, quick nod of the head… I really want to know an interesting fact, idea, or value relating to the people around me.

2) I will listen earnestly to someone else’s opinion everyday without judgment. I will make sure to take one positive thing away from each of these encounters even if I think they are full of crap. Oops – scratch that last bit. I’ve fallen off the wagon already and I’m just at number 2!

3) I will spend extra time every day scratching the bellies of my basset hounds – even when I feel like I don’t have the time or the patience.

4) I will make every effort to improve my mind with new ideas and rise to all challenges. An engaged mind is a benefit to my family, my employers, my friends, and my community.

5) When I workout, I will give it my all no matter how much I think I might upchuck. This is purely in respect to those who are nearly upchucking next to me.

6) I will always stop to help those in need – the lady who looks lost on the street, the mini-van stuck in the snow bank, the gentleman looking for the last dollar for his bus ticket.

7) I will eat fewer pastries because I know they are bad for my cholesterol. I didn’t say I would STOP eating them, though. Who am I – superwoman?

8) I will spend more quality-time with my parents. Because, you know, I really like them. Maybe I’ll get my mom to teach me how to make pierogies.

9) I will make an effort to speak to my very dear ‘out-of-town’ friends at least once a month. No matter what! I have that unlimited calling plan and I just don’t know why I don’t use it more.

10) I will increase my volunteer-work because it really does feel good to help others. They don’t just say that so you get out there and volunteer. It’s true. It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy.

Do you have any resolutions you would like to add? I would love to hear them… especially if they involve basset hounds…. you know, doing good in the community.